Keep knowing people.
I’ve learned that the best way to find the woman of your life is to befriend the potential love partners that you meet in your life, until you have the capability to make a firm decision.
Being in a relationship, without clear purpose and time limit, will make it harder for you to be decisive.
If you find that you’re unable to attract the women you like, that means you need to improve yourself. But you can improve yourself without being in a relationship, actually it makes it easier, since being in a relationship (with a woman you don’t really want to get married to) may make you “lazy to improve”.
When you have attained your decisiveness, then you can decide whether a woman is good enough for you to move into serious relationship towards marriage, considering all the trade-offs (your age, her age, job, lifestyle, her potential to be snatched by other, etc.). No more gray area.
Are There (Many) Women in This World Who Can Be My “Miss Right” But That I May Never Meet?
Yes, that is why it’s important for you to make effort to improve yourself, as well as increase your chances of meeting women.
Why is improving yourself important? Because a simplistic way to say this statistically is that you need to know there are two groups of women:
- Single women who may like you. The more attractive you are (both physical and non-physical attributes), the more women are in this group. Any undesirable and negative attributes you have will decrease the numbers.
- Single women who you like (“Miss Right”). The more attributes you desire from a woman, the women in this group will be smaller.
Those “Miss Right” are women who happen to belong to both groups at once. This is important because no matter how many women that fit into your criteria, you won’t have a chance of good relationship even if you meet them unless you also meet her criteria.
So, start improving yourself. Perhaps all this time you’ve been meeting these “Miss Right” women all along, but they didn’t notice you.